Charity Begins….

Since I was a teenager, I have made it a point to do something for charity; something more than just drop a few coins into a bucket.  Don’t worry – I’m not going to shine my halo (but if you wanted to, I’d be delighted if you’d buy a copy of The Big Book of Hope) because I think charity is only really charity if one doesn’t crow about it.

In a recent radio interview, however, I was asked why people should contribute to a charity that helps children overseas when there are so many children in Ireland who need help. Why should Irish people send money to India or Ethiopa when there are children here who could benefit from that money?

I do not deny that there are children in Ireland who need help. There are children in Ireland who will go to bed hungry tonight. There are homeless people in Ireland who need food, clothing and shelter. There are sick children here who need – and whose families need – financial assistance. There are elders who need help. There are animal sanctuaries and community projects that all need – and deserve – help.

Most of us don’t need to leave our own towns or villages to find a person or family or cause who could use a bit of assistance. So, when I ask people to support a cause that helps Indian children, I am not asking them to do so at the expense of Irish children. I am, instead, offering them the opportunity to help in a way that might appeal to them more than other opportunities to help.

The €1 you have to spend on charity will, to be blunt about it, achieve more in Kolkota than it will in Kiltimagh. It will buy a loaf of bread and an apple (in Aldi or Lidl) but feed a family of four for a day in India. Does that mean that the people in India are more deserving? No, it doesn’t. But if you believe, as I do, that we are all connected and that no matter which way you send an act of compassion, it is received and does good, then it really is up to you what you do with your spare time, your spare pennies and your spare goodwill.

Make this year – Europe’s Year of Volunteering – the year that you do something for others on a regular basis. Find a cause – here, there or anywhere – that tugs at your heart-strings and support it. If you can afford to, set up a direct debit that benefits your chosen charity. If you’re flat broke, give of your time or your talents.

Where charity begins – at home or overseas –  is irrelevant.  What is important is that charity begins.

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Hazel Katherine Larkin


3 thoughts on “Charity Begins….”

  1. Last year our Kindergarten sent Christmas gifts with a convoy which went to Bosnia with supplies. The idea being each child who wanted to take part gave a gift-wrapped shoebox filled with small gifts (both new and second-hand) such as toothbrushes, vitamins, colouring books, soap, sweets, hats, teddies… They told us teddies are of particular importance and if we had extra teddies we could send them in an extra bag. I talked to my children at length about the situation in Bosnia and they all donated lots of teddies. In fact, two of the four children gave over half of their teddies. It was a very difficult thing for them to do, each bear had a name and had to be hugged and said goodbye to. It was a very moving moment for me as a mother (I shed a few tears).
    My 12yo daughter is really excited at the moment as she joined the WWF with her Christmas money. The first magazine arrived yesterday. She is determined to do good with her life.
    I enjoyed reading your post.


    1. Wow! Thank you so much for sharing this. I was really touched by the effort your kindergarten and your own children made for the children in Bosnia. No matter how badly off we think we are, there are always others with greater needs. This is a wonderful lesson to teach your children.

      It says a lot about your children that they were willing to hand over cherished toys because they understood they were going somewhere else to be loved.

      Your 12 year old sounds like an amazing person – I hope she enjoys her WWF Magazine!

      Hazel Katherine


      1. You’re welcome. I felt inspired by your blog to tell the story. There are always people in need, sadly. I think those of us who have the opportunity to help, should do so. And it’s not even all selfless, it’s a great feeling, knowing you’ve done something good. I love helping others, it gives me a sense of purpose I guess, but in general I don’t talk about it, it’s just a part of life. But it is important to say something sometimes, to inspire others.
        I can’t tell you how proud I was of my kids, they dive me mad at times, but this was a cherished moment.
        My 12yo is very special. I suspect she may become a ‘mover and shaker’.


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